Share an unexpected embrace with your wife.
A long-term relationship requires work in order for it to remain viable and successful. Taking each other and the relationship for granted can lead to hurt and neglected feelings. Don't wait until Valentine's Day to say, "I love you." The key to rekindling a romance is to observe little things every day. Make a conscience effort to treasure your wife and the feelings you have for her. Choose to put her first and feel the mutual appreciation grow.
Instructions
1. Leave notes. Compose a paragraph each night before you go to bed describing how you feel about her or reminiscing about a time you shared. Slip the note into her briefcase, so that she discovers it while at work. Leave a quick one-liner on a sticky note, and stick it to the fridge or another area, where she will see it. Expressive words can add a spark when you are away from each other. Leave your wife a text message or voice mail at some point during the day. Tell her that you are thinking of her, or that you love her and are looking forward to seeing her after work.
2. Hold hands. This simple act is innocent enough to do in public, but it puts skin on skin in a romantic way. Body connection is important for romance. Hold hands every time you are together.
3. Share ideas, hopes and dreams. Communicate plans for the future. Listen to each other, and allow yourselves time to laugh, learn and grow together through these conversations. Open a bottle of wine and sit down for a candlelight dinner. Allow the time to pass slowly as you reminisce about your past and plan for the future together. Building -- or rebuilding -- emotional intimacy is important. Be vulnerable with your partner; show her that you trust her and love her unconditionally.
4. Plan a day together doing an enjoyable activity. Go for a walk through the boutiques in your area; plan for a leisurely lunch at her favorite cafe; or plan a nature hike, if that is something she enjoys. Putting the focus on her and planning something you know she will enjoy shows that you have put thought into the activity and have considered her wants and desires.
5. Give her a day off. A day free from household chores, child duty and the stresses of every day life can do wonders. Show her that you care, and purchase her a spa day, a massage, or lunch with a friend. A little time away while you take over will show her that you understand and appreciate what she contributes to your family.
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